IPoIB: Fix memory leak of multicast group structures

IPoIB: Fix memory leak of multicast group structures

The current handling of multicast groups in IPoIB ends up never
freeing send-only multicast groups.  It turns out the logic was much
more complicated than it needed to be; we can fix this bug and
completely kill ipoib_mcast_dev_down() at the same time.

Signed-off-by: Eli Cohen <eli@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>