[SCSI] zfcp: Fix request list handling in error path
Fix the handling of the request list in the error path:
- Use irqsave for the lock as in the good path.
- Before removing the request, check if it is still in the list, a
call to dismiss_all might have changed the list in between.
- zfcp_qdio_send does not change the queue counters on failure,
trying revert something is wrong, so remove this.